“Bikini” – a piece of clothing used for Beach wear……but I don’t know why people in society has made a Taboo of the cloth and Judge badly to the one adoring it.
Lol…..bikini why I m even mentioning that outfit ….I have been in situation Many a times where a whole lot of People used to stare me when I was just in Denim shorts with proper Top with “No cleavage visible, nothing exposed” but still there exists large group of People in society who have not progressed Yet.
In our society our Indian Tradiational attire “Saree” is being considered as a symbol of “Sanskaari” lady….although when blouse of saree is level of crop top and whole stomach is visible then people do not have any Problem with that. But when same blouse level crop top is worn then its labelled as what not…
Problem is not with Outfit, Its with Mentality of People. The same group of people who Pretend to have socialize many Norms around Sanskaari Naari…do many unetical things behind…
“If a Person has No Wrong Intentions then it Does not matter who is standing in front of him and in what Outfit”……There exist huge Group of People in Society who are ready to blame women’s outfit for Rape and other Henious Crime. Let me ask them 1 thing “Doctor many time operate a person according to problem but Does it not signify that seeing someone’s body doctor will Rape him/her ?……CLEARLY NO! Then How come Clothes are Responsible for Rape?”. According to Data In huge Number of Rape cases clothing was never an issue……why I even wrote clothing ?….Rape cases “did not had” and “wont be having” any reason but still victim doesn’t got any justice.. A 1 Year old Infant is even getting raped, and a old lady is also getting raped …..then how could People with such orthodox mentality are “Blaming someone’s Outfit” for the same ..?
Why I m even just mentioning about Men…Taboo related clothing is not limited to gender even Women are not behind to mock someone down for clothing
Its always an Individual choice to choose what to wear or what to not. For millinals as well as Gen Z people Clothing has now become more about fashion as well as comfort sense ……but still that mentality and taboo related clothing has not changed in society.
If you are always limiting your outfit just because of “Society” or “People” around You then its time to change yourself. Do not wear something to Impress Others, Wear in what you feel to be like “Most Beautiful Person on the Earth”.
If you are waiting for perfect body then must read this:
https://nidhirawal.blogspot.com/2020/01/imperfectly-perfect.html
Whether someone infront of you is Nude or is in bikini or is in any outfit and if wild thoughts are going in your mind then Problem is with “YOU” as well as “YOUR UPBRINGING” , not with the person in any outfit.
“Cleavage or anything on body is just a Piece of Flesh “…
If Just Clothing was issue then at once “Imagine a world where every women is in outfit which covered her full body”..Will crime reduce to zero?…..No, still Crimes won’t stopped because Clothing is never an issue. Its all about mentality existing since ages.
Whole world has Progressed to much extent but still I m in state of shock when I see some soo Called Educated People who were giving all Possible reason to “Normalize their Orthodox mentality” .
RAPE or Anyother CRIME can Not be Justified . If crime is committed then its must for Government/Law/Society/judiciary to Provide Justice.
