Every Now and Then either Orthodox Things Privaling in Society have been Targetted or either Men Dominating workPlace have been Targetted for Hurdles in Women’s Progress.
Most of time its believed that women supports other women in her Progress as well as Social Growth. When any crime Happens Goverment is Blamed the most because of not soo strong Punishment Rules.
But everytime its not the case. Its not “Men vs Women”, “Society vs Women”, sometimes its “Women vs Women” too.
In our society many a times you might have heard cases of Dowry or Domestic Violence or even cases of Abortions. Who is Blamed the most ? …..”The Man” , I agree he is most Responsible one for all this but there is sometimes some other person too who is equally Responsible for the crime. Its the women in that Man Life…..I m not pointing his wife, I m mentioning about his Mother. I have personally seen such Mother Son duo in my life who enjoy giving pain to other.
Its not just one case , It happened that on my vacation we had some unpleasant Experience. The Property we were staying In was Overall Great but we had some Unpleasant experience there. There were some other families too in resort and everyone were busy in enjoying but one family we encountered was….What to say!
It happened that we were clicking pics and then that family started constant staring at Me and My Mom, They started commenting on our clothes as well as they were Speaking Ill about Us and then when my Brother approached them and told to “Give Us some Privacy” They went away but before that we heard them using abusive Things for Us.
Later we complained to Manager there about whole incident…I don’t know what Manager told to them but Later On they never bothered Us.
Family About which I mentioned had 3 members. A husband wife of age 40 around and 1 lady accompying them.
What An Irony! They Think that we are characterless because of short clothes …..but they don’t know that their “ABUSIVE JUDGEMENTAL BEHAVIOR” was clearly showing who they are.
One thing to highlight from above whole incident is “Involvement of 2 Women” and their abusive behaviour.
Another Incident I would like to narrate is of my High school Duration – During my high school (my 11th 12th) I came across few groups of girls who did everything to mock me down, make fun of me and even bully me. But it was that I was soo focused to my dream of IIT that I was not that affected from such groups. I was all alone, I felt being lonely, I was always always sitting in corner just with my book while others were busy with their friends. People made many talk behind back but I did not care. My dream was more important to me. Due to all this bully I did not liked going to school but I had to because of attendance and all stuff. All this loneliness and stuff was limited to my school after coming home my mind was just focused on studies, I spend hours In coaching class as well as Personal studies.
Soo before Always Blaming And Pointing that its Male Dominating world we all need to even make people aware that If a lady wish many things can be changed. As mentioned About Domentic violence If his mother would not had supported then the case might had been different. If 2 ladies who was abusing us might had different mentality then that guy accompying them would not had guts to do soo single handendly.
Many Times because of Wrong Upbringing in family as well as unequality learnt because of seeing difference made between “Him and His Sister” The Guy turns out to be the one who doesn’t know how to respect Others especially women as well as due to that he had mindset that “women are just made for some particular things(Household work) and not for Job or studies”. If from childhood equal thing would have been taught then case might had been different.
One need to understand that Issues Prevailing in society is not because of just one Gender but I agree that Overall just One gender is being considered superior while other Gender has been supressed from equal rights by Humans possesing Orthodox mentality
The blog is not to demean women, Its for highlighting the issues Prevailing in society as well as To highlight Reasons behind them. Also to made everyone aware that even some women exist who instead of uplifting other women mocks her down.
Trust humans wisely. Be prepared to face challanges. You will never know whom you will be facing when ?!
As they say “All Men are Not same” like wise “All Women are Not same”
